I’ve(27) been with my husband(24) for almost 6 years married for 3 years. And he absolutely doesn’t wake up himself. I am always responsible for waking him up weather it be for work or for anything. If I don’t wake up him he will sleep until 5 in the afternoon. Mostly he doesn’t wake up due to staying up from 1-4AM. He doesn’t wake up to alarms he doesn’t even check the time. He just snoozes. And I’m the one who has to set those alarms even though it’s pointless because I end up being the one who has to wake him up anyways.

Today we have an event planned that we have to be there at a specific time and we have to leave at a specific time. I notice he was starting to fall a sleep so I told him to set some alarms, and he said that he was just going to rest his eyes. I told him I’m not gonna be responsible for waking him up and that I’m going to just leave if he doesn’t wake up for it. And he said I was being mean about it. Am I wrong for being over it?