All my adult life I've 29M never been into s** talk during intercourse. As of recently, my new partner of 2 months (29F) is into it. But not to the extreme. Just a few comments here and there which half the time I just ignore. I think it's unnecessary and weird. We had the talk before and i mentioned it, but indirectly, saying "it'll be good if we spoke less." It was in the context of me not finishing because it reached the point it turned me off and I couldn't be straight up with her and say "your talking is off putting". I really like her and everything about her is positive except for this little attribute that is so organic for many. Yet, I can't stand it.

The other night i had enough and told her to just shut up because it ruined the moment. She said things such as "cum all over my tits". Like fricken no shit, where else did you think I was going to do it, on the floor? Followed by "you're the biggest I've had." I'm not big, so who you lying to?". I just said "shut up, saying that shit puts me off". Then we continued, quietly and effectively. But it was sort of awkward and quiet and I think she got mad.

I don't know how to approach this now without telling her how it is. Would it be healthy for me to say something about it? I take note of when she says she doesn't like something in the bedroom and i dont do it moving forward. Is it something i should get used to?