I'm an atheist and my now ex wife is a Christian. She wanted to go though premarital counseling at her church she grew up in before we were married and I agreed to it.

During one of the session her pastor told us we should not perform oral sex on each other during our marriage because apparently he thinks it's unbiblical. I have been to a lot of churches and have read the entire Bible and have never heard anything like that before.

I'm an atheist so to me this man isn't anyone special. He is just a man, a man who people believe is closer to a god I don't believe exists so they think he has some special authority. He is using that authority to get people who follow him to do what he wants them to do. That thing in this instance being my soon to be wife not going down on me. So to me this is just some dude telling my girl what not to do sexually to me.

I got extremely angry and told him I should slap the shit out of him and walked out. We never ended up getting married at that church and I told my wife I did not want her going back to that church.