📝 AITAH for the advice I gave my best friend?

By mindfuckery1 • Score: 9 • April 26, 2025 8:05 AM


So, my best friend called me about two years ago when we were really close. She admitted to me that she had been sexting with a neighbor, even though she was a married mom of two. I was totally shocked. She asked for my advice, and I told her to cut off all contact with him immediately and to never mention it to anyone, as it could ruin her marriage and family. But she didn’t want to stop and kept it going for weeks and months. Every time she mentioned it, I urged her to end it. Eventually, she confessed to her husband, who was understandably heartbroken. But then she told him that I advised her not to tell anyone, which I did say, at the beginning of the sexting affair. but only after I begged her to block the neighbor. Now her husband absolutely despises me and blames me for her cheating. I haven’t seen her since, and when I called her, I could hear him yelling in the background about her talking to me. So, AITAH? Am I really to blame for her cheating?

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