Hi am trying to think if am a Ahole for thinking this or not but let me give you context

I [17M] am in a special needs school due to having autism but I sometimes don’t act like the stereotype autistic people due to being treated as normal and finding out I have autism at 15 now onto the thing I want to tell you guys

There is this person [16F] let call her Margret she has two friends both 16 to 17 and she sometimes have a stutter and kinda keep to herself but the thing that gets me is that she still uses the words mommy and daddy for her parents I find it weird I kinda went through a similar situation but it ended when I was 7. I always feel weirded out by this I know that some people is on different levels of special needs. But I want to tell her to just say mom or dad cause it’s weird to still say mommy and daddy but I don’t want to sound like a completely Ahole.

Another person is another girl around 16-17 I’ll call her Olga she is always on a iPad and acts like a 4-5 year old always pestering people thinking cringy things is funny and goes on about how some weird things on YouTube are funny and good videos but it looks like AI generated videos that goes straight to YouTube Kids and one time is year 9 (Am in the UK) while some people were waiting in line for lunch she was kinda going on about a Mac Donald’s toy she has and the person ahead of me said it was shit I agreed at him then she growled? And tired to punch the person in front of me and she got kicked out and a teacher had to go and get her lunch recently around 5 months ago she got suspended for trying to hit a teacher with a laptop cause she was looking at weird stuff only young children would search up when she was supposed to be on this website were you read books and she immediately got sent home

Still got to ask the question Am I the Ahole

Edit: quick things to say cause I feel like I should 1. At first glance I do somewhat sound like TA but it’s because when I get a bit mad my mind goes of with thoughts of me finally snapping at the person am mad at 2. This one has nothing to do with the post but you have to admit a person that can get the most mad is a calm and very nice person cause when they start yelling they are going to make sure you hear it