So there was this girl, she was mid thirties a coworker, I was mid twenties.. I wanted to link up with her so badly, she was super sweet, and flirted back and we even s*xted. I did say I wasn’t interested in a relationship, just wanted to have fun, ya know. She seemed totally into it and then became super distant before we could actually hook up. She ended up dating another coworker, like exclusively, she sent me a message saying that she really wanted to give this guy a fair shot- so she was 100% focused on him and their relationship.

I could tell she felt weird about everything said between us, she couldn’t even look me in the eye. To be fair, we never had a friendship or relationship in person, we just knew of each other. Well, 7 years later she married the guy! I’m surprised. I mean I knew they were together but I always hoped I get to shoot my shot with her.

So…. I unfriended her on facebook- blocked and unfollowed her on instagram and now I try not to make eye contact with her but I still see her almost every day. Am I the AH for blocking her on social media? Like she probably doesn’t even know I did that, maybe she does because she only adds people that she knows personally so she doesn’t have a lot of friends on Facebook. I just don’t need to hear, see or anything else about their relationship. To be fair she never really posted things and they never posted that they were in a relationship, so I always thought it would fizzle, now I’m kinda bummed about the whole situation.