📝 AITAH for untagging myself from my guy best friend’s IG post after he cropped my fiancé out of our engagement pic?

By ConfidentZara • Score: 1056 • April 11, 2025 10:54 PM


So I got engaged two weeks ago. Me (25F) and my man (27M) were on this Napa trip with a few close friends, including my best friend J (26M). We’ve been tight since college, always just friends, never anything else.

Anyway, my man proposes during sunset in the vineyard, super cute, private, perfect moment. J takes some pics of us right after, and one of them? Straight fire. I’m crying, he’s hugging me, ring poppin, like it looks straight outta a damn commercial.

Cool. Cute. Whatever.

Then this dude posts it on his IG… but he crops my fiancé out. Like bro, what?

Just me in the pic. No caption like “congrats” or “happy for you.” Just straight up posted it like it was a solo shoot. No tag for my man. Just “she’s glowing” and vibes.

I hit him like, yo… this kinda weird. That was my engagement photo. And he hits back with “you looked so good in it, I just had to post.” Like okay? But again, not about you, not a thirst trap, this was me getting engaged.

So I just untagged myself. Didn’t make a scene. Just moved on.

Then he starts being mad weird. Posting stories like “funny how people switch up” and “too real for the fake.” Like okay, Drake.

Now some of our friends are acting like I overreacted, saying I “should’ve been flattered” and that “he was just being supportive.” Supportive would’ve been keeping my man in the pic and maybe saying congrats, not acting like I was the star of his content drop.

So yeah. All that.

AITAH?

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