Sadly no, it's not a joke or karma farming. My husband(M30) threathened to kill me(F25) if i "screw him over" aka run with our money (idk where he got that impression bc i've only been fair, but he has been screwed before by an ex partner so maybe that's why. He was really angry bc i was only phone 5 min longer than i said i would be and things escalated from there).

I literally feel guilty and an asshole for wanting a divorce over something that happened a while ago and while he was very angry at me. Ever since then things have been fine for the most part (except small jokes here and there that are a bit rude from him). But his words just keep ringing in my head. Like i don't know if i can get over it and i'm questioning our whole marriage. I don't know if i can trust him and for me if there's no trust, there's no relationship. He tends to say a lot of hurtful things when he's angry, things to jab at me, but this latest one scared me.

But now that it's been 1.5 mo ago and things returned to normal, i don't feel justified to leave anymore.

AITAH if i divorce over something that was said in anger almost 2 months ago?