Sorry for the format I'm on iPhone.

My boyfriend and I got into a really stupid argument over him coming to bed. I told him I wish I would be able to sleep in bed with him longer than 2 hours because he comes to bed at 4a.m. and I'm up with our daughter at 6a.m.

He got upset saying it helps his depression staying up late having alone time and learning to play his guitar. I told him I understand, I mean, I barely get to shower nevermind have 6 hours to myself to do whatever I wanted. He didn't really think I understood for some reason. He got kind of pissy with me when I asked to explain what he thought the issue was. I told him he was wrong when he said the problem was me wanting him to come to bed with me and our daughter.

I said, "How is me wanting my boyfriend to come to bed with me a problem?" He could barely explain himself and told me that's he's always been like this even though that's a lie. I don't understand, is there somebody else? Is he just tired of me and our daughter? He told me he recorded me during one of our old arguments too and the whole thing was ridiculous. I don't know what to do, I feel like I can never tell him anything because it's always an argument or he's thinking the issue is something so stupid and completely the opposite of what it actually is. I need help.