I’m (m21) my girlfriend (f20) and I have been together for almost 3 years now. I notice that whenever she sees a couple who’s doing things we’re not doing, or a female who gets treatment that she doesn’t get she’ll get jealous and say why can’t I have that treatment, or why can’t you talk to me the way that guy talks to his girlfriend.

Another example would be one of my friends who falls for women very easily to the point where he’ll take them on trips out the country within the first week of dating.. he took a girl he’s been dating for only a month on a vacation, and my girlfriend felt a type of way because I haven’t took her on a vacation yet. She has not once ask if I can afford it..

The other day she was on a FaceTime call with her friends, one of her friend added her boyfriend. Mid conversation they started flirting and talking lovey dovey with each other, they’ve only been dating for 4 months so while on the phone they do what we all do during the beginning of a new relationship. But however my girlfriend heard them obviously since there all on a call. Then she muted herself and said to me why can’t I get this treatment.. so I said to her “tbh you’ve been comparing our relationship to others since the day we started dating” she proceeded to start balling her eyes out, bringing out thing that happen between us in the past

Our relationship is not the best, I’ve been wanting out for the past couple month because it’s not what I want. But she doesn’t have a place to go and I’m not a ass**** so I’m not gonna kick her out.. should I just say f it and move on? AITA if if end things knowing she doesn’t have support?