So, me and my friends (all female btw) are all aged 17-18, we go to the same school and all has been fine until one of the girls have suddenly started bringing this 14 year old girl to our hangouts. At first, i didn’t think much of it, but it soon became annoying. There was barely anything we could do with her since A) the mental age gap, B) she can’t drink or go out late, and C) our totally different views and personalities.

Eventually I got irritated by her and decided to express my annoyance to the 17 year old who brought her along in the first place. I plainly explained that I didn’t want some kid around me all the time and that the 14 year old should find friends her own age. However, she accused me of being rude and said that the 14 year old was our friend and I shouldn’t talk behind her back. As of now, this friend has a negative opinion on me and has been ignoring me for a while due to me offending her and her friend.

So, there’s that. I genuinely want to know if I was being an asshole by wanting her gone?