📝 AITAH here?

By Apprehensive-Bank636 • Score: 0 • April 10, 2025 1:50 PM


So one of my friends confessed her love for me, I said stuff like “I am not looking to get into a relationship right now, I wanna focus on work and shit”. I don’t remember the exact words.

I jokingly added we can be fuck buddies or something, and she accepted.

So we have been going on dates, and spending more time than usual. It’s basically like an open relationship at this point. But we are not officially together.

But during aftersex cuddles, the way she looks at me really makes me uncomfortable. She is genuinely in love me and I feel guilty for using her for sex.

Idk, am I doing something wrong here?

I wanna get out of our current arrangement but I don’t wanna hurt her. She seems to enjoy what we have,

I have tried building some distance, but I am a horny mofo so I keep going back.

Edit: Forgot to add our ages, I am 30 and she is 27.

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