First of all, I would like to apologize in advance for my grammar not being on par as the other posts since my main language isn’t English, I hope you understand.

So basically this started on a Friday a couple of weeks ago. My friend (let’s call him Carl) and I had made plans about drinking, although we didn’t mention we would be grabbing a beer or two, we didn’t pay mind to it. However, another friend (I’ll call him Fred) tagged along with the impression that we were going to get wasted. Friday arrived and Fred was dead set on drinking till he stooped. Driving there we called Carl and he said that we were just going to drink a few beers and then call it a day. At this point Fred got furious and cussed him out. He already wanted to go home, but I convinced him to come. So we get there, Fred still angry. We walk in and despite Fred being in a foul mood we tried to cheer him up, even singing kareoke in his native tongue. When this didn’t work, we suggested drinking with him. We took a couple of shots, but he still wasn’t interested. After an hour or so he still didn’t want to drink, and we decided to leave for the pub. Fred tagged along, despite still being mad. We were drunk and tried cheering him up with some horrible freestyles, which to him were annoying. When we get close he still wasn’t interested in drinking, and he was dragging the mood down, so I told him exactly this: ”Why don’t you just go home” While this didn’t strike me as mean or rude at the time, I can see in hindsight that it could be interpreted as such, which he mentioned afterwards. We dapped him up and he left for the car.

A day later he was still angry and we had a long fight about it until I just gave up and proceeded to go about my life. Recently, I was told that he still has a grudge about it and is taking it really seriously, and we haven’t really talked to each other since the incident. Right now I’m debating whether to apologize or not. Keep in mind, he’s one of my best friends. I have already apologized if he misunderstood what I said and he didn’t accept my apology. Then I went on a rant about him not being able to accept his own faults, and he obviously got mad and stopped texting me.

AITAH here?