Context is very important, the reason why I feel like I need to have this conversation with him is because he is my child's father. Which makes the situation more scary.

I've hardly ever spoken to her except to congratulate her on their baby earlier this year when dropping off my child.

Anyways I'm semi famous in social media. I dont use my real name for privacy reasons.

Well about a month ago, a random account tagged me and posted a screenshot of a document from my custody battle with my ex. Left my name uncovered but blurred out his name and parts of the court number. And then made a seperate post making fun of my weight gain for some reason? It hardly got any views so I just did my best to just ignore and report it. But I'm not one to have any old enemies from my past so I had no idea who would've done that to me. I would be lying if I didn't think it was my exes gf initially. But then I felt bad for thinking that way, surely she has better things to do with her life especially with a new baby, right?

So fast forward to yesterday. I'm having a fun day with my son, then I get a notification that someone commented on my post. I made a goody face and asked for followers to guess my age, well there was a username with her exact name (it's spelled very different from others with her name) and of course they were the only one who got it right. She deleted the comment afterwards but luckily I screenshotted it just in time.

So, I did some snooping. Then there it is, I see her selfies. It's her. Alot of her posts are kind of unhinged and not in a funny light hearted way. She seems a bit chronically online and likes to antagonize people.

AND THEN she has MULTIPLE posts about talking about her experiences in the pysch ward?? Apparently she's been there 5 times. And no, they did not come off as jokes. She knew very specific things about psych wards that obviously only someone who has been to them would know.

So now I'm connecting dots. This b--ch is crazy. OH so me freaking out about being doxxed last month was most definitely probably her! She would totally have access to information like that EASILY

So now I'm upset and at this point, I feel like I have to tell my ex. This type of stuff is usually something that would be beneath him, and chances are he has no idea. I doubt he's cool with her putting me and our child's lives as risk from doxxing??

AITAH if I tell on her to him? My fiance thinks I should & wants to be there with me to show his concern as well and because he wants him to take us seriously. This isn't petty drama imo. This is dangerous territory and honestly I don't know what he was thinking when he got with a young crazy girl and decided to have a baby with her!