My bf and I have been together since September of 2024. He left his commission based job back in October because he wanted to find something stable but has not had a job since then. I encouraged him to get at-least a part time job in the meantime because he is also getting his masters, he’s 24 but he didn’t prioritize this until the last two months I guess because he realized his credit cards were maxing out. He also recently got out of the hospital and is going to have a surgery in the next months. I’m 21 and about to graduate college in May. I secured a job after graduation. Money has always been a struggle and I’m planning on supporting my family financially after graduation. I love him and he is the sweetest guy ever, he is everything I need emotionally. Today I drove to see him we went to the store and I grabbed some snacks total $5. I know he doesn’t have money right now and I don’t expect him to buy me things but as we were gonna walk out of the store he rushed back and bought a $10 Pokémon pack. Am I fucked up for feeling this way? I do feel shitty I know he’s looked for jobs and he’s disappointed and also stressed because he’s still looking but I’m also sad that it took him so long to realize he should’ve just been working a small job in the meantime to stop the accumulation of his credit cards. I’ve given him money to pay for some stuff and I don’t expect to get it back. I also pushed him to do some deliveries and stuff to get something in while he’s still searching and to have at-least a bit to get by. Should I even bring this up? AITAH ?