I f(28) has been married to a guy M(30) from over a year, he is generally a nice and caring husband but I feel he prioritises his friends over me I am saying this because this has been a pattern throughout & we had our conversation in this whole front.Last week his friend say R came to our city and my husband was excited to meet him, I encouraged him to take some and meet him on priority, he went on Wednesday to meet where he came 1 hr later, and my husband was only able to meet for an hr.Next day he told me that may be he'll go again to meet R on Saturday since they weren't able to meet for a longer time I said okay ,I am good and he went out for 4 hrs on Saturday and came back in evening.On Sunday he asked what is my plan I said nothing then he said he'll most likely will go and meet R since they weren't able to talk much and R will leave for other country but he'll only go and meet if I agree to it .In evening he cancelled the plan saying he is tired and won't go to meet.Around 9 pm he got a call from R to meet and he got ready, I expressed my disappointment by saying that does R knows you are married? He said why you are bothering it's a matter for only an hr, I was sort of hurt since it was Sunday and he didn't asked me to go out but he was all available for his friend.I left the home for a walk in anger, he didn't even called me, checked on me during that time and when I came back home, he was gone to meet his friend.After coming home he tried talking to me but since I was upset I said no and in morning without talking him I left for gym there he started calling asking where I am and when I came back home we had a bad argument, according to him I was controlling him while meeting his friends, his friends are better than me, I am toxic one therefore he wants to meet his friends to feel better, in turn I also said him a lot of things.

I wanted to know if AITAH is reacting this or guys is this normal to meet with your friends this frequently and I am overreacting?

PS: He has other Friends in same city and often goes out to meet them, R is leaving to other country.

Few other details: 1.We both are working and weekend is the only time we are together and our schedule is like he comes 3 hrs early before me in evening

2.He does prioritise meeting with friends, spending time with them over "our" plans and many times he tried to includes his friends in plans which was for just both of "us"

3.In our relationship it's me who plans for weekend, dinner nights, doesn't see any input from him except for asking his friends to meet which they often decline at last minute.

4.One of his friend is toxic and gaslights others frequently and had impacted our relationship as well.My husband knows this very well but still choose to meet him