22F been seeing this guy 28M for a while. Hes ghosted me 4 times in total since last year. And the most recent time was last month. We had a call today and he told me he doesnt understand why he does that even tho nothing is wrong and ive been nothing but nice and good to him. But he just shuts down and withdraws from everyone even his family. And doesnt communicate at all. He told me he cant date me because otherwise hes sure he will shut down eventually and ghost me again and he doesnt wanna hurt me like that because i dont deserve it. AITAH? I dont even know.