Me (F53) met my partner (M48) last yeah Aug. He lives in America and I live in london. We met in Aug and he came over the weekend of my birthday in October and the week before Christmas holidays and even came over valentines weekend to see me . His white and I'm black ( the political conversations are for another post) but on a whole we laugh a lot and talk on WhatsApp everyday and I'm planning on going to see him this month ( trying to not ingest the negative information about travelling to America)

I really like this guy.. political we don't really aline but I like that he makes me look at thinks differently. He buys me great gifts ..for my birthday brought me a poster printed in the birth of my year.. we decided we were not going to get each other Xmas present and for valentines he brought me a beanie rainbow toy ( I'm crazy about rainbows ) and a beautiful necklace. My issue is this ... I am that kind of women that likes to buy my partner gifts .. but he is literally a nightmare to buy for. He works with cars so I brought gloves he could wear with lights on .. he didn't want them because it was the exact same brand and everything his ex partner brought him , he loves English history so I thought about buying him a map of the wall that was built when Romans ruled, he didn't want that . Thought about buying him a t.shirt( he wears them) with all the cars in famous flim and tv , so knight rider,Aston Martin DB5 from "Goldfinger," the DeLorean from "Back to the Future," and the Ford Mustang from "Bullitt you get the gest. He didn't want that! His so honest as well that his not going to pretend he likes something if he doesn't so I'm now at the stage where i have to check in with him to see if it's something he likes . His birthday is this month and it's a complete nightmare to buy him anything . I'm stressed and mention that this is not a pleasent thing for me as I am now stressed on what to get him I managed to persuade him to let me get him a watch. We will go to the shop and he can choose it himself. I've told him I am banning us buying present for each other because I am finding it stressful. Birthdays we will take each other out for dinner and drinks and thats it no presents ... I managed to get him to pay attention to what I am telling him, because he has prush me off when I've mentioned this before. I know he took it onbord bless him he just said " I'm sorry" I told him I appreciate him being honest because i dont want him to pretendhe likes something, its just not pleasent looking around for something for him . AITA