Family member is a sibling who constantly tries to pay for one thing or another for me. One example is they recently tried to give me money for what I owed on taxes. I declined, I never asked for help nor do I need it. We have a family trip coming up and they want to cover the hotel bill for me. Once again, I did not ask. I’m not trying to sound ungrateful, but it’s starting to get annoying. They’re also the type to pay for you and let it “slip” out somewhere later on. Like for example, if I take up their offer, they’ll do something like play around with my child later and slip out something like “oh, auntie paid for your trip and I’m glad you’re having such a fun time!”

Once again, I had to tell her I appreciate the gesture but no thanks. AITH?