29M seeking some advice on what I should do I feel very conflicted. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend 30F for over two years and we have moved in together. My girlfriend is from Thailand and moved to Australia about 5 years ago. My background in taiwanese.

My dad thinks she is using me for my visa and he looks down at her due to her occupation and background and he thinks she is not good enough for me. He also thinks she is too old and wants me to find someone younger, can speak chinese and share similar culture.

My dad would keep bringing up this topic every time he talks to me and demand I end my relationship which why I avoid talking about this topic and mentioning her name.

All the signs tells me he is a narcissistic father and is controlling. I feel disappointed I don’t have his support. Am I in the wrong here? Am I too blinded?

I love my girlfriend and have no plans to leave her or look for anyone else. Even if she wants permanent residency i can feel she is genuine and I don’t believe she is acting and using me purely to stay in Australia.

Tl;dr: staying in my relationship despite my dad’s disapproval