I like to have an alcoholic drink every once in a while with dinner or if I go out with my girlfriends but my husband said I’m not allowed to have a drink with him or without him because “ people can’t control themselves when they drink” , but I completely disagree there is a huge difference in having one or two drinks and being a bit tipsy and having 8 drinks and being completely drunk and sick, in my opinion. and when I drink I’m “a happy drunk” as apposed to being “an angry drunk” which his ex wife was so that may play a factor in his opinion but I AM NOT HERRRR and it drives me crazy when he treats me like I’m going to be just like her ( a cheat, an abusive drunk and a trouble maker) I’m not like her at all. We also have a pretty big age gap and neither of us have ever been in a relationship with an age gap like this and I feel like he is treating me like his child, he doesn’t let me go anywhere without him “because anything can happen” I feel like he is holding me under his thumb and I hate it, he also make a lot of statements like “ at your age ” or “because of your age” and I know very well he would never say that to someone his own age, I just want to be treated like an equal adult that I am. Am I in the wrong? What should I tell him, he doesn’t take me seriously and doesn’t agree he’s treating me like a child