So I have a friend ive known for many years. She has had quite a few traumatic experiences the past few years but she's draining the living day light out of me. She dips I and out of my life whenever she feels like it, could go weeks without replying to my message then when sge does finally get in touch ANOTHER traumatic thing has happened. She's not lying about what's happened but my god am I a therapist? She refuses to seeks out therapy or medication too may I add because 'they didn't work in the past' so my question is m I the ass hole for cutting off a life long friend because she brings nothing but negativity and worry to my life?