So I’m 17 f and my dad came out when I was about 14 and I expected him bc he was my dad and I loved him but one day I had my boyfriend over and I went to the store really fast for snacks for a movie (me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 6 ish years) so my dad apparently went up to him and said something like have you ever had something up you before and my boyfriend said no and then my dad was like well come with me and we can have something up you so my boyfriend called me and told me so I called da yelling at him and my dad said it’s not fair that I get a hot boyfriend and not him and that he has been waiting to put his thing in something for a long time so I said that he needs to stop trying to do it with my boyfriend so then my dad ended up drugging my boyfriend and ended up putting him thing in his asshole I was an hour way from home and I came home scared bc I saw what my dad did so I told him I was done talking to him. So am I the asshole?