Hi i am a 17 F and my ex boyfriend is also 17 M. So basically we dated for around 6 months and for the majority of the relationship I thought he was a funny guy. His humour matched with mine but occasionally he would make jokes that I found were dumb. An example of this is when he called me a hoe and said I've been passed around because he asked me if other people have had a crush on me in my lifetime. And I said yes. I never had any serious relationships with any of these people, he was my first. I have had one previous boyfriend though which also only lasted for around 6 months and the most we did was a peck on the cheek. Anyways, he would just occasionally say things like that and when I would confront him, I admit I'm not good with confrontation so I would just sort of laugh while saying why did you say that, he would just say it's a joke. Recently, one of the guys who used to have a crush on me texted me saying he was moving to my school. I was freaking out because this guy was the freakiest guy and I was nervous about him moving to my school. I called and told my boyfriend now ex boyfriend about this immediately because idk I was freaking out and he responded by calling me a whore and saying that I had a porn star mindset because the freaky guy had a crush on me? He also said that he said these things because I let a older guy have a crush on me? My friend was with me when I got this call and she overheard our conversation and immediately started yelling at him saying that what he said is stupid and he's a dumbo. I was just kinda dumbfounded by what he said trying to find the logic behind it and all I managed to say to him was wtf but not in a serious tone which is a fault on my part because I couldn't process how stupid what he said was until after the call. Also I suck at confrontation and I am trying to work on that. Anyways so I hung up on him after processing what he said. My friend told me that this is not okay and to be honest she was more mad then me lol. I'm greatful that she was though. I guess my boyfriend realised that me and my friend was mad after I hung up because he sent a apology afterwards. But you know what? He sent an apology to my friend. Not me. My friend. Which would be fine if he sent me one aswell but he didn't. My friend didn't even want a apology ( her words). She texted my boyfriend saying that he should apologise to me but he just kind of brushed it off and thought she was joking? Anyways I just ignored him because I didn't want to text him after all that and after an hour of ignoring him he finally texted me a apology. He sent two short messages that went something like: sorry I did that it was dumb of me and I won't do it again. That was good enough for me but then he just ruined the whole apology by following it up with a apology he wrote using chat gpt. I can't find it because I deleted all the messages with him after breaking up and blocked him but if I do manage to find it I will update the apology on here. Anyways after getting that chat gpt apology.", I wasn't gonna accuse him right away so I put it through like 10 ai checkers which all said 100% ai. He couldn't even put the effort in to change it in the slightest. And I knew that he didn't write it because he is kinda dumb and doesn't have good grammar and that apology was top notch grammar. The apology also had stuff like: I am truely sorry that I have inconvenienced you with my actions and I will work hard to improve our relationship. Which sounds too smart for him to have written no offense. Anyways I was mad and I called him out after doing my best to fact check. I was more mad at the fact he thinks I'm so dumb that I would fall for that than him calling me a whore. He denied to the end and said I'm digging to deep into things. So I broke up with him and he just said Deadass?? I broke up with him a week after this and I didn't tell him why because I'm a pussy. So am I the asshole? Also sorry guys this is my first time posting on here so if I did anything wrong jus let me know.