I'm a 23f a uni student who lives with her south asian family in Italy. I have 16 yo sister 14 yo brother and the other 11 yo brother. My dad had been living here for 10 years when my mom I(8 year old) and my 2 year old sister moved to Italy. Since the age of 8 I have been helping my mom with house chore cleaning doing the dishes moping and helping her raise their children. I would bath change daipers feed change their clothes give aerosol when needed , make them fall aspleep. Basically I helped raise my sibling. Back in the day my dad was also very aggressive he would hit me and my mom, when i was 6/7yo he hit me with plastic bottles but now he doesn't do that, my sibling don't have to see that aggressive side of my dad. The problem is now that my siblings are older once they are home they do their homework and the rest of the time they are always glued to tablets and their is no one to supervise them since my mom is too busy talking to her relatives back home or out with her friends. And if she ever says anything they ignore her or start crying so she gives up. Last year in 5th grade my little brother did terrible in school cause no one supervised him not one of my parents checked how he was doing in school infact the teacher said he could have also failed the class, but this year if I try to check his home work ask him to study better give a little more time to his studying he starts insulting me and cry and my mom doesn't say shit and my dad is always on his phone on facebook post work he has never been involved in his kids lives. It hurts that i missed out on my childhood to raise my parents kids who now have nicer parents.