I (f25) just moved into an apt by myself after leaving my bf (m29) of 5 years. Super toxic relationship that was borderline abusive and resulted in a lot of aggressive and loud fights. I let my bf stay over last night and he started an argument this morning about my alarm clock going off and him being annoyed at it. The arguing was loud at 6am, I was trying to kick him out and eventually did. Again, been 5 years of the same stuff and I left to get away from it, we have pets together and they’re staying w me so he wanted to spend time w them. Left for work and came back to a note that said:

“Hey, BTW, the walls are pretty thin here & it’s easy to hear through them. You work a few of your neighbors up at 6am today. Please try to be a little more considerate. You just moved in. Thanks. Your surrounding community.”

I get that we were loud but it was 6am. It wasn’t in the middle of the night. It was short and ended with him leaving. Seems like the note is a bit dramatic.