Having a 4 year old autistic 1 , hasn’t been easy for us to 34(f) 45 (m) to accept this , but we are doing great, we live our lives well and have accepted this very well, been tho king about having another child, specially because I’m running out of a good age to have children, but we are still thinking what if the baby would be autistic too? We just want to know , would it be mean to have it for the new baby knowing what it could happen? Are we been selfish?