So, me (32m) and my wife (31f) got married extremely young. She was 19 and I was 20. We’ve gotten along for the most part over the years and now have 2 boys together (5 year old and 2 year old). But the last few years together I’ve just been unhappy and no longer in love. We’ve had a few times that I talked about wanting to separate and then we would say we’re are gonna work on things. We would for a few months and then stop. Also, we have grown into such different people now. We are rarely on the same page. We’ve tried marriage counseling and both of us see our own therapists. Life isn’t miserable, I just prefer to venture out and do my own thing and co parent our children.