I’ve been married for 9 years. I have always tried to please my husband even if I wasn’t really in the mood. No isn’t really and option in my mind… until today. We got lost in conversation and ended up staying up way too late. We decide to go to bed and he initiated… 2 hrs later he isn’t ready to stop, I insist I’m exhausted already and have to get ready and run errands later. I got about 2 hours of sleep before being woke up… he wanted to go again I was still exhausted and asked him to wait until later… I get my errands done and the minute we are in the door he’s starting again. I remind him I’ve only had two hours of sleep so it can’t be another 2 hr session. An hour later I insist on stopping I’m beyond needing a nap at this point. It seemed like he wasn’t exactly happy about me wanting to be done but he gave up and I don’t even remember falling asleep. 2 hours later I’m woken up by the noise of him rummaging through stuff in our room… and his first thought was time to go again🤦🏼‍♀️ I didn’t even want to be up let alone that. I tried to nicely tell him to stop I got up and got dressed and he gets mad… like am I really the AH for not just giving in? I feel like 4 hours of sleep in the last 36 hours is a good reason to say no for once especially when 3 hrs of this day have already been spent on this particular activity🤷‍♀️