So I've been sitting her for about an hour going over the several times my finances father and I have butted heads. The latest one happened about 2 hours ago I was called a lazy ass by him and his friend said I had an attitude and didn't give a shit about my step sons. I work 8 hours, on a slow day, and have had a month maybe 2 off in 3 years and do 90% of the work because he has "health issues". Then there's his daughter who has my back 100% til her father applies the slightest pressure then she back pedals and wants me to do the same along while getting talked to like a dog. I'm an asshole by nature but am I wrong for telling both of them to go fuck themselves, what I actually said is against community guidelines so I'm not going to repeat it, I'm entitled to a day off at least every 3 months. Side note: This is the 3rd time he's gotten pissed off and started bitching and the icing on the cake I had a doctor's appointment all 3 times so there's that tid bit of info. The plan today was let the youngest pick out his birthday presents, since it's tomorrow, and spend time with the kids and their mama