Today is my day off, we both work the same job. I have had a very rough week, and been especially exhausted, and last night I was glad to finally get some rest.

I was sleeping very well, like a good, hefty, deep sleep and then my fiance called me at 5:00 am, obviously waking me up- I feel so annoyed and frustrated that he did this.

We live 6 minutes from our bus-stop to work, so it's not insanely far- but he called, and then texted begging me to go find his airpods. Which be dropped, because he woke up late to work and was rushing out the door.

Firstly, I'm so disoriented from waking up.

Secondly, it's pitch dark out, cold, I'm in my pajamas, and a woman- I don't necessarily feel comfortable running outside asap and tracking his steps towards the bus- which includes crossing the road, etc.

Like, having to look around and check with my phone flashlight, at night, when I just woke up.

I feel so, so annoyed. I already got up and checked our living room and found nothing, but he's always doing this stuff- he's constantly late for the bus and has to run out the door, which I complain about a lot.

It kinda just feels like his fault, but now I'm awake and unable to go back to sleep, and he feels annoyed that I won't go right now to find his airpods.

I said I'd check when it's lighter outside, but damn.

I also feel bad, because I know they're expensive, and I do love him- but it does feel rude that he didn't consider me and just, woke me up like this.

He's also for sensory issues at times, I'm not sure if he's on the spectrum, but he gets annoyed very easily at sounds, I understand being on the bus and needing silence, but he told me he won't hang around me as much without these headphones, which feels dumb and unreasonable.

Am I wrong for trying to wait, and also being very annoyed by this whole situation, or should I just get up immediately and rush outside?