Long story short. I’m the youngest of 2, mother and sister didn’t speak for over 15 years before my mother got sick (stage 4 cancer) I grew up taking care of my mom as she had many medical issues. My sister flew the coop at 18 and wasn’t around for 20 years My mother was adamant that my sister didn’t get anything from her will. I was the executor and POA.

It didn’t feel right for me to inherit everything, i felt it was important for my mom to die in peace and to have my sister say her peace. I had them reconcile their differences and I convinced my mom to re-write her will to include my older sister. My mother agreed. 60/40

Fast forward 4 years later. My grandmother (my mom’s mom) passes away and leaves everything to my sister. I wasn’t mentioned in the will? I ask my sister about the inheritance, her reply was “you got more in moms will and we’re a single income household, now it’s fair, we need the money” I blew up on her and haven’t talked about it since… That was 7 years ago, we still talk when we have to, but very fake.

I can’t get over it. Very bitter about it.

-Side note- -My mother and her mother didn’t speak for 20 years before my moms passing -My sister and my grandmother had a close relationship near the end of my grandmothers life.