Recently my fiancee and I moved out of his parents house due to his father's verbal and psychological abuse. From calling his wife a whore, to constantly yelling, to gaslighting and undermining everyone. He doesn't allow his wife to go out, not even to her church. He is a cancer to the entire family. I have cptsd from different abuse that happened throughout my life and my paranoia is so intense. Long story short, our one rule, he can't know where we live. My fiancees mom however is allowed to come over. Today he forced her to tell him where we live and tbh I don't even feel safe anymore. AITAH for telling them if he came over I would file a restraining order?