I am 35 F my husband is 39 M married for now 7 yrs. We have 5 yo together and 9 yo step daughter. I come home after long day of work. My husband tells me that he has something to tell me.Then he says Nora who is his ex is 7 months pregnant. I replied with “so? “.

His eyes went to wide to sad with my reaction, then he proceeds to say I cannot talk to you because you are a spoiled brat who grew up with a family so I would not understand, how it felt.

Little background I have a 9 yo step daughter who lives with us, we don’t have custody or anything because my husband does not want to, we moved to different state 5 years back so our 9 yo is with us entire year, also because his ex has big drug issue and is always in and out of jail.

I have little to no regards for her because the way she treats her daughter, she calls ones in couple months and she never helps with anything.

My husband proceeds to talk about how broken family impacts and having a sibling who is blood makes it difficult and that I wouldn’t understand. I told him I do understand, but It does not impact us because she is hardly present in our life. We do not coparent she calls when she wants. I thought my explanation was logical and that’s how I truly felt.

Based on his reaction, I proceeded to ask him why he was so offended does he still have feelings for her,that just blew him off then he started telling me that I have attitude and I say stupid stuff. Am I missing something, did I do something wrong. I did grow up with a family but it was less than perfect, my dad and mom were always arguing my brother was in boarding school. I was the only one home with my parents, and we were low middle class so how am I spoils brat.

AITH? For not being a drama or curious. I wish the best for her but I really don’t care.