This happened at night and we had just ordered burgers from my partner’s phone. She wanted to take a shower so she gave me her phone so I could track the order and get it if it arrived while she was still showering. For the most part, I was just watching tiktoks on my phone and tapping her phone to make sure it stayed on. But I decided to go to her notes app because she had wrote me a poem and shown me the full thing a few months back, but she never sent it to me so I wanted to read it again.

When I was scrolling down, I saw a note that said “role play” and I read the preview of it because I was curious and she had never mentioned liking role play to me before. I know this is probably an invasion of privacy, which is why I feel conflicted telling her about it. But when I read the note, it was a short bio of her and then she asks for a female role play partner for a romance apocalypse concept. I got concerned because the date on the note is from March of this year and we’ve been dating for 6 months.

I love her to death and she’s never done anything like this before, so I was confused and I thought there must be an explanation. Even though I trust her, I can’t shake it out of my head that she could be roleplaying being in a romantic relationship, which imo is cheating. I want to talk to her about this, but if I do AITAH for invading her privacy? Even if I did talk to her, I’m not sure how I would word it because of this.

tl;dr i found a note on my girlfriend’s phone where she requests a roleplaying partner for a romance concept from a month ago (we have been dating for 6 months). Is this cheating? I want to confront her about it, but I don’t know what exactly to say or how to word it since I did invade her privacy by looking at her notes, so AITAH?