By OneRevolutionary8524 • Score: 1 • April 12, 2025 12:37 AM
Excuse me if I do mistakes English is not my first language. So let me explain the situation it will require a little backstory I'm an athlete and I plan to turn pro in my sport and live of of that I have really good achievements for an amateur so far ,I'm religios and lately started reading the bible (ik it's better to get my answer from god through the bible but I just wanna hear as many opinions as possible) throughout all my life I was a good kid I never smoked never had any addictions never drank never did drugs only practiced my sport and rarely hanged with good friends, and there is my gf she and I began dating before 10 months and started living together before 6 in my apartment, everything is going really good ,let me tell you about her past. She is the total opposite of me. Before we met she had a wild past with high body count and was at one point addicted to sex. She went to the clubs everyday, she did drugs got problems with the police and problems with her junkie friends ,got addicted to drugs and 3 months before we met when she hit rock bottom and almost went to jail. That's when she stopped everything the drugs going out cut all ties, only the random hook ups stopped a month before we met ,and so we met and one month into the relationship she told me all that. I took some time like a day or two and searched an answer from god and as a man of god forgave her about her past , (let me be clear I would never tolerate her doing any of the things listed above while we were together) cuz we didn't know each other before. So far I decided to give her a chance. She had a lot of damage from her stupid lifestyle from before because although she had a loving family she was really outgoing with the wrong company and was practically raised by the streets ,since then I kinda showed her the right way to live but that is not the reason why I plan to break up with her. I wanna break up with her because mainly of 3 things first in my core I'm a really sporty person with habits training everyday and having good physique and she is lazy asf she has gained 15 pounds since we started dating and I have lost a lot of attraction for her and the problem is that she is too lazy getting on a diet cutting it down. Secondly , it may sound stupid but that's me , the other thing that I never liked is the fact that I'm 6'2 and always wanted to have a tall wife and she is 5'4 at first that wasn't a problem for me cuz she had an amazing body and I was like ok short kids for a 9/10(considering her for a wifie material at the time ) but since she has gained the weight I know its gonna sound stupid but I just don't feel the same attraction and thirdly that's the one that really bothers me before we met when she stopped doing all the bad things she told me that during that period she really prayed to God to save her and believes in him and since then is a strong believer, on the outside it may look like that she goes to church for example ,but on the inside she never became a godly woman, when everything got good she forgot about the prayers and never got god in her heart. I have started to read the bible recently and once we had an argument and I quoted a verse from the bible and she said I want you to be more worldly not so godly with your bible like some nerd. That made me lose a lot of respect for her. All that makes me believe that she stopped the drugs and the sex only because she hit the rock bottom and couldn't go any lower and in my opinion wouldn't have stopped if it wasn't a jail or freedom type of situation. The pros are that she is caring ,loving to me and loyal but tbh I see a lot more cons. Do u think my reasons for breaking up are valid
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