So as the title says I was arguing with my mother over something stupid at first but then she mentioned when she was 4 she was SA'd but I've never been told about it. However when she was talking about her first marriage she had told me he was very abusive so I got defensive, then she was having a go at me for not caring about when she was 4. But I'd told her that if I had known then I would've killed him because my family is the most important thing to me but then when I was getting defensive and angry about it she made it out to be my fault. I did say to her would she mind if I went to jail for her ex husband and it stemmed from there, I know I shouldn't have said that but we had both been drinking and the topic came out of nowhere. I just want to know how the general public of the world would see this, if you need more details ill reply tomorrow as I'm still a bit drunk and I need to wait until she is home (at the hotel, were on holiday)