What happened was i spoke with this guy for two weeks i was hot and cold but i became rude so he blocked me. After 3 months i texted him and he was like “ a block was nothing, did you not see the way you spoke to me” then he asked me “why did it take you this long to text” anyway we fixed things and started speaking again keep in mind that we were speaking in that sense of seriousness and my friend was helping me the whole time she knew our whole conversations and she was telling me what to say. Anyway come a couple weeks we are still speaking and Im starting to actually get interested for the first time and i was thinking about actually taking him seriously. When my friend asked me i told her I don’t know but i like the idea. Come a week after its her birthday she asked me to post her and make sure that her username is big and its shown. He replied to my story and said “wish her a happy birthday” so i responded with “you see her username go add her and tell her anyway im seeing her later ill mention it” he was like “your best friend is my best friend” so i responded with “and so is yours introduce me” and so on the conversation stopped when i mentioned this to my friend she took my phone and sent a voice message on snapchat and told him thank you after that he told her your welcome then continued a conversation with me, he also texted me on instagram enough you gave her the message thats enough. Later that day mr and my friend were having a sleepover so she took my phone and texted him “im with my friends let me introduce her to you” as if in the one Speaking. I even told her the moment he sent that birthday idk what way he meant it but anyway he didn’t even mean it in that way but she took it that way. After he called me she took my phone and started speaking i felt so uncomfortable and didnt say anything and they kept talking and she kept making conversation and joking with him and i was being rude because i felt so weirded out so towards the last 4 hours of the call i went completely silent and he kept asking for me and she would change the topic, she made him add her on all platforms and even made him open his location for her but he opened it for me while i didnt ask him too, anyway we made a group us three and i was so rude on that group and she was so nice and being the lovely amazing nice girl she is, he kept asking for me mentioning me asking if im fine asking why i dont join the calls and all that and then he was like “sorry if i did anythibg wrong” i knew the whole time what was going to happen then when i would tell my friend she would be like no your seeing it wrong ur imagining things u just want to push him away then she goes on to tell me not “ why do you even care you dont rveb want him” when i said i wanted to remove him she goes to say i dont wanna be the only mutual with him blah blah. Anyway come 3 days later or them just speaking and me not answering he sent us a snap and i didnt see it she saw it and we were together she makes us go to the place where he is she goes and takes me with her and we see him, she has this friend which is close friends with the guy and she told me she wants that guy to know that she knows theyre friend im common because he will say really good things about her, anyway he texted on the group and mentioned me ues like im glad i ran into you and then he was like to my friend i saw u smirking. She calls me and shes like “idk if i can do that to you idk” so i asked her do what she tells me “the friend in common told her that the guy asked about her a year ago” that before he knew me or anyone of us. So i just went ahead and asked her “do you like him” and she says yes i do and i see him as s1 i want marry. I hung up and started bawling my eyes because i felt like she did all this on purpose and why would she even allow her self to like s1 i am speaking to and why would she betray me like that, me and her spoke but it was so bad and akward. I removed him everywhere and she didnt mind u me and this girl are BEST BEST friends of 8 years and we r family friends as well. She texted him normally and was even making conversation while she knew I wasn’t okay with this, she later removed him because she felt so guilty not because of me or anything, after 5 hours he texted her can er Speak and she told him idk because its disrespectful to my friend even though she wasn’t interested in u. He texted me a bunch of messages, paragraphs explaining himself tbh he is a really good guy and he is sweet he has good intentions I understand that because i was so rude to him he saw that she was the nicest option so he went for her and before he texted on the group “ i know (me) isn’t interested anymore so i wont waste my time” anyway he kept asking me not to leave his life but i told him i dont accept or care to be his friend or for his apology because if HE OR SHE asked me to hook them up i would have. I feel so so so used and betrayed by both of them. I told him there is no friendship if theres no respect i don’t respect you understand that and i dont wanna be his friends, we speak and i just got fed up so i told him” buddy we are good shes all yours enjoy” and so on we “fixed” things, i still dont forgive him or her they both used me and betrayed me and one thing i cant forgive is that. Anyway my friend still wants to speak with him and thinks its fine now since her conscience wont hurt yer she even told me “if anyone from our friends ask you have to tell them that u didn’t even like him” and so on ALL SHE CARES ABOUT IS HER IMAGE AND NOT WHAT I THINK, she asked me if im okay with it i just said yes do whatever u think is right. The fact that im one of her CLOSEST FRIENDS and she wants to still speak to him after all of this is crazy why would she do this to me just why the fact that she IS SPEAKING TO HIM RIGHT NOW. I just dont know i feel so used and betrayed and i cant ever forget or forgive this but i cant act bothered to my friend and i cant cut her off.