📝 I told my girlfriend that I just didn’t find comfort in her anymore.

By rlly-slo • Score: 15 • April 19, 2025 1:32 AM


I have been nothing but loving, caring, understanding, and I have sat with her and let her cry and comforted her all she needs. I have tried giving her very small nudges in the right direction, never outright telling her what she should or shouldn’t be doing. But more recently I’ve begun to see her as entitled and narcissistic. Now I know, everyone has their struggles, and that’s something I fully understand myself. But when she manages to turn me just being quiet just because I’m exhausted from a long day of working construction into me being done with her or making it out to be that she has something going on constantly to shift the focus to her. I know life sucks, and I know sometimes you just want someone to listen, but when it’s almost nightly, especially when I’ve done everything in my power to comfort her, but when it comes to my issues she just basically gives me a pat on the back and says, “Oh I’m sorry hunny” and then proceeds on with the rest of her day basically ignoring my issues especially because lately has been really hard, I’ve begun to just resent her…. What the fuck do I do?

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