I am 16 year old female high school student. I won't say names for privacy but let's call our main problem JJ (16F). In December 2024 I had it all. A friend group, almost the whole school knew me. I was nice to everyone I met. Until JJ, took it all away from me. She started dating my best friend of 9 years, let's call him evan. And they were together for a very short period of time, after they broke up, JJ was telling people he was harassing her, which was not true, I know that, he was trying to apologize to her. The day she said that, evan found out that they were cousins, and very close cousins. JJ needed to know. So I gave her number to evan so he could tell her. After that, I was confronted at lunch by JJ and her best friend, let's call her Adrian. They said that I was talking shit about our entire friend group and kicked me out. I asked for proof which they didn't give me the supposed screenshots they had. Because I didn't do it. They just wanted me out of the picture. That really sucked, but oh boy was that not the end of it. After winter break, I noticed a lot of my friends were acting weird around me,come to find out, JJ and my ex friend group were telling people and a bunch of lies about me. After that I lost a lot more friends. Everyone knew JJ longer than me. Which gave her the high ground in a way. I was really hurt. I started to talk to my remaining friends about what was going on. And guess what they did, they went and told JJ. And she was threatening to fight me every week. I ended up getting with this guy, let's call him coltin. Me and coltin dated for roughly 3 months. Slowly throughout our relationship, I noticed that if the attention from people was on me, coltin would go do something crazy or act like something was wrong for attention. I didn't think anything of it until.. One day the whole JJ thing was really getting to me, that day I could hear them screaming in the hallway about how ugly I am. Over my headphones full blast. I lost it. There was a circle of people around me trying to comfort me. And then coltin walked in. He saw what was happening and then got really weird. Like he was waiting for something. And then a group of guys walked past us. They stopped for a bit and started messing around. All of a sudden, coltin stands up and starts yelling at them for now reason to leave. I then again, lost it. I was sick of him yelling at everyone. Especially my friends if they did something he didn't like. I couldn't deal with the yelling so I left and went to class. The next day I spoke with him about it. I asked him for he could try to tolerate my friends, as I did for him (one of his best friends told me to kill myself and that I wasn't good enough for him almost everyday. Yet I tolerated it for coltin.) After I asked him if he could try and do that for me, he said he couldn't. I asked him why and he said he didn't have a reason he just couldn't do it. So I told myself it would be fine. Until him and one of my friends got into an altercation. And after that I broke up with him. I couldn't deal with it anymore. And JJ was constantly harassing me more and more. And then she got someone to jump me. An old friend of mine. She lied to the principal and said I threw the first punch. They checked to camera footage and it showed the truth. JJ didn't get suspended because she didn't do anything. But after that, the harassment just got worse and worse. I hated school. Then, she found my dad's phone number and texted him and shared it across the school. They told him a bunch of horrible things that were lies. And said that I did then. I told the school about it because I couldn't keep doing this bullshit everyday. JJ finally got suspended. But it only got worse from there.. coltin sent her my nudes. And she sent them around the whole school. This is now up to date with today. I don't know what to do. But I know I can't keep doing this anymore. If anyone read through this huge essay. I'm begging for some advice. Am I in the wrong?