Hi, me and my friend met at work a year ago, in both our words we would consider each other best friends, we generally do most things to together and I have times sat with her and her daughter in hospital, point being we do pretty much most things and get along really well we spent time both in and outside work going places.

So as we work together it got to 12:40 pm yesterday I asked if she wanted to get food, she said no as she had to face time someone, this caught me off guard abjt as she has practically made every type of call infront of me, she’s now mad at me as she thinks I’m controlling her, I simply said we had done the same thing for a year straight and it wasn’t about the call it seems my time isn’t valued by her and there is a whole heep of other thing but I’ll keep it short I explained that I come to work and practically only am there to help her with things be it shopping for her and her kids and paid for house jobs and it’s not that I’m holding this against her but when I say I sacrifice my time helping you i get called manipulative and that’s just to touch the surface I have been paying a car finance for her am I feel withjnt my rights to be upset but not sure I’m looking for other views on this.