Backstory to this: my fiancé (27F) was an alcoholic, she started drinking at 15 due to her parents being alcoholics and stopped drinking when she was 22.

When we started dating one of her hard limits was no alcohol in her home. I personally don’t drink that often so it was quite easy for me to just not have alcohol while at her place.

When we moved in together we made our house alcohol free to make sure she had a space that didn’t have that temptation for her. I want to add that she won’t stop people from drinking when we are not at home, she just likes to have spaces where it’s alcohol free.

When we started planning our wedding we decided super early on to make the wedding a dry wedding and instead have fun alcohol free cocktails and coffee/chocolate drink bar.

My parents found out the venue will be alcohol free and have been pushing back on this relentlessly, they claim that the wedding will be more fun if they are allowed a few beers and that they need the alcohol to loosen up. Dads words where “alcohol makes weddings less boring and more enjoyable” they don’t care that we want this to be a wedding that will make my future wife comfortable and happy.

Extra info. All of our friends are fine that it’s alcohol free. My fiancés family isn’t attending because she is NC with them. I’m 27F also