I'm 26m and my partner is 22f. She recently had our baby.

Stuff's been very rough for her. We live overseas from each other, me UK her AUS. She's not living with family. She got pregnant while she was here and she's been moving around a lot. She didn't want an abortion. She ended up in a mother-baby house.

She keeps complaining over lack of intimacy. We get along for the most part, we are long distance. But every few weeks she threatens to leave me over lack of intimacy. And during her pregnancy we'd argue all the time over it.

I don't want to be intimate with her. It turns me off when she asks for it repeatedly. I told her it'd be months before I try to be intimate with her again. She offered couples counselling and even schedulling intimacy. I told her to grow up. Then she'd spam call me and beg for me to come back to her after she's done telling me to fuck off. I'd tell her to fuck off and she's not getting intimacy.

I'd tell her either shut up about it or i'd leave her. Then she'd shut up about it for a few weeks then bring it up again.

She claims she gets really lonely. She goes to uni twice a week. She lives in a new city with the baby. She says she's tired and exhausted. I told her that that's no excuse to abuse me.

I haven't initiated anything in over a year due to her arguments. Of course I want to leave her.

She says she's trying. She's got antidepressants, got herself in with a GP, left her abusive family, goes to a counsellor, is trying to get her drivers licence and she's trying to get a job to keep herself busy. She also journals and studies self help.

She says I put too much onto her and that the threats make her feel like I hate her.

I just don't want to be intimate with her due to the arguing. We'll go a few weeks of no arguing before she brings it up again. It's annoying. She's pushing my boundaries and she's turning me off.

I told her we can just be friends and i'm willing to try again when i move over there. she said she doesn't want to risk me being not intimate when we're long-distance. I told her she's being selfish and she needs to look after our daughter. She claims she is and that i'm not (I CAN'T I'M NOT THERE!) Then she proceeds to tell me she doesn't want to be friends with me, and that if i want updates on our daughter, I can contact her sister.

She's then blocked me.

AITAH??