I F 23 and my Bf M 22 have been together for about a year and a half. I have always noticed he’s been secretive about stuff, what he’s doing, where he’s going and especially his phone. He always says “go though it I don’t care” I never wanted to cross that line. Well we got into an argument about our sex lives and then we understood each other said how we were gonna fix it and he said I know you have trust issues but I wish you could trust me and I wouldn’t do anything to lie or hurt you and I said I’m building that trust it take me time because of my past. And he understood. Then I went into my house to grab something came back out and looked in the car and saw he was texting on his phone. He swiped away as soon as I got in the car and opened messages with his mom. I said what are you doing? He pulled out a picture of a pizza box and said sending this to the gc because it looks funny. I was like really? And he said yeah it looks weird. And I said I literally saw you texting a long message are you lying? He went on with a sob story about how he was texting his friend (male) about our relationship issues and he specifically said they did not go into detail (mind you we had a convo about how we would fix issues between us and not involve other people previously). Then I read the message and he went into detail about our sex lives and how I never trust him. I don’t care about that. He lied straight to my face and made up an elaborate story. Then I said I want to check your phone and the entire time he was like can I help you find this do you need this pass word go though her texts with me. Then I went though his with this girl and he doubted our relationship and said how he didn’t think we were gonna work out. Then I went in more and saw that he also sent her these emojis 🥰💕 he also would text her update about his projects in college which he didn’t send me even after I would ask to see them. He says he was drunk and doesn’t remember. So what do I do in this situation. Is this cheating, not cheating “micro cheating” The entire argument he was crying and saying “I’m just a piece of shit” “I was drunk” “I’m never gonna do that again.