ok so this is really weird honestly

and i’m on a throwaway account because my bf knows my main and i don’t want him to know

anyway, my bf, his sister (f27) and i are in a group chat because we play iPhone games on there. this gc was made like 3 days ago.

and it’s been good. i used to text his sister earlier to (a little bit) and she’s nice. we get along just fine or so i thought i guess ??

now, i was eating these cup noodles that i really like and sent a pic of them in the group chat (we do sometimes send our food pics in it, she sent it a day before as well).

and i asked my bf to come over to eat it too since he likes them as well. and then my bf said “can u believe she didn’t like these?” and i said “maybe she didn’t make them properly” and then he said that she did.

i said “maybe she likes x ones better then” (x noodles are crazy popular in my country, literally every single person likes them including my bf and the sister)

and she agreed. i said i never liked it bcs it feels slimy. she said its superior and tastes “like heaven” and i said “no” in a joking way. like it was CLEAR we were both joking around.

then she she my noodles taste slimy and look “black” and “disgusting” and i said that x looks yellow and i don’t like it.

then the main thing started. she asked me if i don’t eat pulses because they’re yellow too and i said “yeah that’s why im protein deficient” (AS A JOKE, im vegetarian so nonveg options aren’t there) and she said “ur deficient in brian too”

i ignored that comment. then i said that the x noodles come so cheap i fear they put some weird shit in it bcs my noodles cost like 5 times of hers and hers are still MORE in quantity. also the brand she eats from was banned for LEAD contamination in those noodles!!

then she got personal and said she doesn’t like the people who don’t like x noodles either and i said “omg no 🥺💔” as a joke.

then i said “it’s so funny whenever i say x is bad, 10-12 people get pissed bcs of cult following”.

then she sent a BUNCH of texts.

1. “not everyone is stupid like you”
2. “all of us don’t each trash or nothing at all” (i’m underweight hence the latter part)

then my bf said she should cut that off and apologise. she started arguing with him saying she didn’t do anything wrong and that he “can apologise” for her. then she said i’m the one who was wrong for even saying her noodles are bad?? (they have LEAD and were banned bcs of it) and he said that i only said the noodles are bad and she went personal.

i haven’t responded to the gc. she hasn’t apologised.

my bf did text me personally and gave some half hearted apology that his sister is stupid like that lol. and he’s just? idk he hasn’t done much to address it after that i guess. just some half hearted questions about IF i “felt bad”.

which is weird to me since what’s the “if” in this lol. she came at me unprovoked like some unsupervised child. and he’s debating “if” i was offended and just some “apology” from his side is enough lol.

aiath in this? his sister is 27 and a year younger than him btw.