It's exactly what I said in the title

My friends (3 people) were having a sleepover at my house. I had given a can of monster to each of them as we had them in the house.after my dad had finished his work he came to check on us and when he saw us all with monsters he pulled my aside and lectured me bc I knew I wasn't allowed to have monster due to the caffeine in it. I understand that I did something I wasn't supposed to do but he shouted at me to the point I was on the verge of tears and my friends could hear him.

When it got to dinner we all went to Mac Donald's. Me, my friends, my brother and my dad. I specifically remember them all saying thank you at least once during dinner but I know I forgot so I can understand him being angry me (my dad keeps on denying them saying thank you). I have ADHD and autism and forget things allot and I usually have to be reminded to say thank you but I am always grateful even if it doesn't seem like it.yes,we didn't all say thank you together as a group but they all did say thank you.

After we got back home when we were setting everything up in the cabin (a room/cabin that's at the bottom of our garden). My friends were all in the cabin and my dad pulled me aside just as i was leaving the house (to go into the garden). He told me that me and my friends behaviour was extremely selfish and entitled.when I got back to the cabin I told my friends and we were all shocked but we all just tried to laugh it of and comfort each other.

In the morning we had asked one of my friends mums to pick us up and take us into town as they were going to get picked up anyway. My dad found out and called the mum and told her that he was going to take us instead.in the car on the way there he lectured me and my entire friend group on how entitled and selfish we were(he was all so driving without a license plate).

So I'm not sure if me and my friends were the assholes in this situation.