So she moved out almost a year ago. She has her own apartment. I have mine. She has a key to my apartment that I haven’t asked for back yet, but she hasn’t given me a real reason to until now as she hasn’t done anything like this until now. So she still has a small number of clothes at my place. She asked me if I could find her waste trainer in one of the closets. Honestly, the closet is a mess and I really didn’t feel like looking for it and tearing up that closet last night and told her that at first but after reconsidering I texted that if she really needed I’d find it for her. So she comes and brings my kids over. I tell her to wait and she just walks her way into my place. So I’m like, “wait, I said wait out in the hall way.” I live in an apartment. When I’m picking up the kids if I so much as knock on her door one too many times I’ll get cussed out. I treat her place with the upmost respect. She just keeps walking into my place. So I figure if I put my arms up and block her way since the kids are there, she’ll decide it’s not worth the trouble and walk away. I remind her that she doesn’t live here, I’d get it for her and she isn’t on the lease. She tells me she is on the least (she isn’t 🙄). She tells me to, “f____ yourself,” and pushes past me. My kids who are 5 and 6 are confused and getting worked up. I realize it’s not worth the trouble and just let her do what she is about to do. So she gets it and walks out.

At that point, I have some words to say. Sorry. So she tries to run back to her car and drive off like everything is okay. The kids follow. Honestly I hate drama, but I had some words to say. She gets in her car and I stand as she is sitting blocking her from closing the door and basically told her to, “NEVER DO THAT EVER AGAIN!” I would call the cops. I didn’t but it was a warning. She tells me to do it

She tells me that I’m outside looking crazy.

After I said my say, I walked away.

Am I the crazy one? I feel like my request is extremely fair. I would NEVER do such a thing in her space