Hello! I want some advice! For safety some information may be altered to protect the safety of the people involved including myself.

In the past, my friend (22F, calling her Hay) and I (20F) used to be really close until a guy she liked came into her life ( calling him Ben).Ben (25M) was known to date minors, do drugs, and he verbally "loud" to women.

They dated for a few months before he hit a record of cheating on her 8 separate times while on vacations for work, she kept finding out through his buddies. She had found out some of those times were men and women, knowing this she stayed. I love her but not the choices so I told her I can't support her ruining her life staying with him after realizing she had fallen back into SH and a deep depression. I told her I didn't want to hear about the relationship or him but I want to be friends. (I realize it could've been said better) She then left for days on end and came back to get food, money, and to vent to me.

After I realized this I kicked her out. After then she has contacted me periodically to tell me she's pregnant but also from the hospital after he had broken into her home with alcohol and cocane in his system, he proceeded to strangle her and try to "cut the baby out." I told her to come back and I will protect her and have someone with her always (male family, male friends, and or my partner that is ex military and a cop). She didn't listen and informed me he had broken in again apologizing and telling her he was under the influence, then stole the baby clothes, her meds, everything she needed for the baby and her health.

I got a phone call from her in a DV home saying she's leaving that home to be with him again, saying he gave her proof he's clean and he wants to be a father. Which her family had proved to be forged, stolen, or lies of some sort. She's currently 8 months pregnant. I'm scared for her well being and I contacted the police giving up his location being that he has 6 warrants for his arrest in 2 separate states. She was livid and I told her to go to the hospital because she was having health issues, after he influenced her to skip 6 montjs of her baby appointments.she listened to me after 30 minutes, she had 3 different STDS and the baby was in critical health. Knowing that she left the hospital and started egging my house with Ben's friends.

She is off the grid but before doing that told my fiance I was cheating and had STDS, She then went to my family home and told my family I wished my mother should have aborted my 4 year old sister. Which is a lie I love her but they will not speak to me until she stops showing up because "they can not trust me".

It was been 2 weeks of her "missing" but periodically posting on Instagram then dropping off her account, I have an idea where Hay and Ben are but I'm worried if I cause any more issues my family will suffer more with her actions