So I really should have been up and down recently we've been together for almost a decade she just recently lost somebody in her family and I know she was feeling down but at the same time I was going through my own situation with my family my mother hates my guts and she gives me a headache always begging for money and stressing me out at work so recently I lost my job comes to find out my girlfriend wanted to break up with me because she said the spark was gone and I was sex life has been up and down she thought I was a fake lesbian as well but why would you do that when I just lost my job and I was there for you when you lost someone very close to you so recently I've been holding the house down cooking and cleaning but never wanted to propose because she said our relationship wasn't all completely there when I thought it was so you basically wasting my time and then assumed that was a fake lesbian this whole time as well.

So I've been put an extra protein in all her food making her gain weight just because I knew something wasn't right.

I mean the signs were there in the beginning because two years ago she changed her password then started to act funny started changing clothes she wear but I was so busy working and stressed out with my own family I didn't notice the changes until after I recently lost my job then it finally came completely clear.

She said she would never hang out with coworkers recently she been hanging out with coworkers and she haven't been posting me so of course the co-workers when they ask her if she in a relationship she said it was difficult but then I told her to post me one day and somebody said oh so that's your girlfriend I like so what's that mean you never told them about us or that you was in a relationship now I was even more suspicious.

Now that she gain a little bit of weight she started to be clingy now, but before you didn't even want nothing to do with me, I'm not helping her loose weight I'm getting my money up and leaving.