So I have been vaping a few years and has caused me to have erectile dysfunction and I can’t perform in bed like I used to. Every time I want to have sex with her she rejects me and I feel so low. Last night she pretended to she was asleep and fake snoring I knew she was not asleep aithah what can I do, I’m thinking of getting her a dildo which we have tried before and I think she prefers it rather than my limp dick